Fear is one of the most damaging emotions, and it lives within us all. Some say that success comes from the fear of failure. Be it true or not, there is one constant; one must accept failure as part of the learning process for success to manifest itself. Failure should be viewed as our own personal and unique learning experience; it should not be feared, for it is absolutely essential for personal growth and development. Paraphrasing Nelson Mandela, we do not fear failure we fear success. Our expectation causes us to be afraid. Fear is manifested through our insecurities. One of our biggest anxieties is us being exposed. The bottom line is, deep down we dread not measuring up. Therefore; we might not put forth our greatest effort, and in my opinion that is a shame.
The need for external gratification is the biggest hurdle when it comes to overcoming the fear of failure. One may never really be secure with themselves if they cannot overcome the need for external gratification. When you crave the approval from others you are allowing them to control you. Being a people pleasure is not healthy. It is a waste of time because you will never be able to please everyone. If you have not notice human beings are finicky; therefore, live your life according to your values and standards. Do not fall prey to other peoples’ opinion. Judgmental people have empty lives. They are pessimist who haven't accomplished much, tried much, and are failures in their own mind. They claim to know it all, yet essentially have not done anything.
In life one cannot afford not taking risks. Living life to the fullest involves experiencing new things. Engage in behavior that’s counter to the norm, and ultimately people will perceive you as being novel; even a trail blazer. How great is that! March to your own drum, despite other’s opinion good or bad. Push past your fears, and do what makes you look good in your own eyes.
Cheers!
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